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On Becoming Her

Outgrowing the life I thought I wanted.

I don't have a neat explanation for what I want. Only a vision — hazy but real — of who I'm growing into.

May 2026  ·  5 min read

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On Becoming Her

Growing pains — and the art of letting go.

I have outgrown so many places, people, and versions of myself — and I am only just beginning to understand what that truly costs.

May 2026  ·  8 min read

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On Starting Over

The $70 Girl.

I moved to New York City with $70 in my bank account. This is the story of the fall, the rebuild, and what it really means to start over.

May 2026  ·  8 min read

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On Becoming Her

Heavy is the crown on which she carries.

Nobody explained strength to me. They just lived it — loud, flamboyant, and unapologetically themselves — and somehow expected me to figure out the rest on my own.

May 2026  ·  9 min read

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Personal Growth

A series of change.

I always believed I was fearless in the pursuit of change. But I'm slowly realizing there's an avoidance underneath all of it.

May 2026  ·  6 min read

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Intentional Living

How I stopped living for everyone else.

Chicago cracked me open. New York showed me how far I'd come. And now I'm in San Francisco — finally at home inside myself, wherever I am.

May 2026  ·  8 min read

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Wellness & Ritual

The only morning ritual that actually stuck.

I read every book. I ran the lakefront at 5am. I listened to David Goggins like he was scripture. And the one thing I still do every morning? Make my bed.

May 2026  ·  5 min read

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Personal Growth

On being a late bloomer in a world that already handed out the map.

Everyone around me seemed to have received a map I never got. Same starting line. Same world. Entirely different instructions.

April 18, 2026  ·  7 min read

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Intentional Living

Saying no as an act of self-love.

A boundary is not a wall. It is a garden gate — and you get to decide who opens it.

April 6, 2026  ·  4 min read

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